"Since I was pregnant, I didn't want to take pain killers or medicine. So I asked my doctor about going to a prenatal massage therapist,"

The story of my first birth is not for the faint of heart. I wanted things to be different with the birth of my second child, so I chose a homebirth.

I don't claim to know everything about being a father – but I'm now on child number three, so I've learned a couple of things that I'll pass along for the new dads in the room.