In my 15 years of living in Rochester, I can't recall the last time the kids didn't have any of the white stuff outside to play with until after the New Year. And the joy of tearing open sleds, tubes and other ski gear at holiday time was rather crushed by the green grass and balmy by our standards weather. Well, winter is here, and we can finally put some good miles on the gear. I have to admit, although thousands of you eagerly await the day you can hit the slopes, I grew up in California where skiing at Mammoth Mountain is a completely different ball game. Sunny skies, t-shirts and jeans were all part of my early skiing days. And honestly, I am embracing this year on the slopes of New York with my black diamond, down the hill like a scene from a James Bond movie husband only for the sake of the children. We have decided to teach them to ski. Other than that and our front yard, (which our friends and neighbors know is a killer run for sledding), I have a treasured spot at Mendon Ponds Park that I love to bring the kids to when I can schlep hot chocolate along and bundle myself up like the Abominable Snowman.

Before you load up the car and head outside, we've got some tips on how to make the most of your day of fun as well as a list of some places you may want to check out for great outdoor family skiing and family fun. Stay warm, and be safe!

Winter Fun Tips:

The Right Stuff
Short of injury, there is nothing more miserable than a child who is crying from chill. To prevent that, make the investment into quality winter wear. You don't have to buy new, although you'll probably find the best selection and the latest heat preserving fabrics in new styles. Many consignment shops have a good selection of kids gear too. Remember to layer yours and the kids clothing for ultimate warmth. Also, don't forget to pack along extra gloves and hats. You never know when something will get lost on the slopes or buried in the sledding snow. Otherwise, most ski shops will have plenty of back-up for you. And for kids just starting out on the slopes, ski rental is a great way to save money until they're either grown, or ready for their own snowboard or skis.

Other Essentials
Warmth and snow gear aren't the only things you'll need to bring along or rent when you head out. You should always have a first aid kit for minor boo-boos. If you are going to a park or outdoor spot with few amenities, make sure you've got plenty of energy bars, hot cocoa or other food and fluids to keep everyone nourished during the day of fun.

Where to Go?
While planning your fun, think about what's best for your family. If you have young children, pick a family friendly place that offers both indoor and outdoor activities in care of inclement weather. Some resorts offer babysitting services too to give diehard skiing parents a chance to fulfill their need of speed. Make a check list of the accommodations and amenities that are important to you. Then go online and compare resorts and ski spots of see which ones best meet your needs. You can also call around to have those questions answered. Talking to someone at a resort may also give you an idea about the nature of their services. If they're knowledgeable and helpful on the phone, chances are that will translate into good service when you visit.

Take a Tip or Two
If this is your first trip to a ski resort, or if it's been a while since you boarded the lift, take the time and invest in a lesson or two. Getting a few of the basics down or fine tuning you existing skills can help you avoid injury and ensure a more pleasant trip down the hill. For the little ones, many resorts offer group lessons in sessions. It's worth the time and expense for them to learn the fundamentals from a pro.

Letting Go
This may seem impossible, but freedom is a wonderful thing for both you and your children. At some point, you have to let them spread their wings - or poles. It's scary at first, but watching your child go down that bunny hill by herself for the first time will give you the same wonderful feeling as the first time she dunked her head under water. Further, it's a great way to foster independence in your children - a lifelong skill.

Time for Mom & Dad
Managing the family at any time can be exhausting, and after a day of wiping runny red noses, brushing off show-packed pants and lubricating lips - make time for you. If your resort offers spa services, book some time to refresh and renew. Maybe all you need is a half hour in the tub. Ask your husband or have an older child watch the kids while you give yourself a little R & R. (I like to call it movie rental time!). Dad could use a break too, so take turns giving each other a break. Lastly, take advantage of any sitting services offered at a resort to get out and share some quality adult time to recharge your batteries.